Anxiety is something I think everyone experiences to a degree. But some people experience it to the point where it decides what you’re going to do with your time — with your life — and it really, really sucks. I mean, to just be simple about it, anxiety sucks.
Personally, I don’t experience the kind of anxiety where I’m worried that people are always staring at me or talking about me, but sometimes when I hear people around me laughing, I think, “Oh that’s definitely about me.” Even though I know logically, it isn’t. I am pretty sure no one pays as much attention to me as I worry they do. And that’s a great thing!
My own anxiety lies in feeling like I’m not “reaching my full potential”, to quote my 2nd grade class report. Sometimes I feel so overwhelmed by what I have to do and the time I have to do it in, that I get stuck. A few days ago this happened and it felt like my heart was going to break out of my body. I paced around my apartment, which only made it worse. Sleeping is difficult. My health declines. When I’m panicing, I can’t use logic. Emotion guides everything I do. I know exactly what I should do, and I do exactly the opposite. And this only frustrates me further.
I try to cope in healthy ways, but…well. That’s hard. And the harder thing to do is usually the better thing to do. I don’t cope with drugs, and I use that as some sort of consolation. I cope by eating my anxiety. There’s that line about how when you’re sad you’re just going to go “eat your feelings” and I didn’t realize up until recently that that is exactly what I do. Tonight, my feelings come in the form of McDonald’s. I will eat them, feel happy, and then hate myself almost immediately after. And then, guess what? Yup, more anxiety.
I don’t think that I’m unique. I am aware that many, many people feel these levels of day-ruining anxiety. I’m thankful that I don’t let anxiety ruin my entire week, or months, or years. I’m doing my best. As tired as this sounds, sometimes it helps to take a deep breath. On a busy scary day, I realize that it feels like I’ve been holding my breath, and I have to remind myself to stop, inhale deeply and slowly, and it let it out.
Anyone else suffer from anxiety? What helps you?
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Almie Rose is a writer from Los Angeles. She has a blog, Apocalypstick. In addition to Dating & Hookup she also writes for Hello Giggles, The Frisky, Thought Catalog, and Genlux Magazine. Her book, I Forgot To Be Famous, is out now. You can follow her on twitter @apocalypstick. Her favorite pastime is eating and drinking and sleeping and then eating again.
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